Fail with me

In this insightful episode of Stories and Stanza, we feature an exclusive author interview with Mia Mason, the creative mind behind "Worry's Whispers." Mia shares her personal journey, intertwining her experiences with OCD and anxiety, and discusses her dedication to mental health advocacy through her powerful book. Her work as an artist and writer beautifully contributes to mental health awareness, offering a unique perspective on resilience and seeking help.
In this episode of Stories and Stanza, host interviews writer, illustrator, and mental health advocate Mia Mason about her book Worry’s Whispers, a collection of illustrated poems interwoven with a graphic-novel section following Drew’s journey through OCD and anxiety from isolation to seeking help, diagnosis, and resilience. Mia discusses using digital art as advocacy to make complex mental health topics accessible, explains how therapy-inspired drawings evolved into the book’s format, and shares a poem depicting health anxiety and intrusive “why” spirals. She describes her lived experience of OCD as “sticky” intrusive thoughts, morality fears, and reassurance-seeking compulsions, framing OCD as a “ghost” named Worry whose whispers can become background noise with treatment. Mia emphasizes values-based action—doing meaningful activities despite fear—and notes the book’s value for both people with OCD and their loved ones.
 
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In this episode of Stories and Stanza, host Abhra and guest David Allen Brown discuss reframing a “midlife crisis” as a midlife renaissance, exploring how depression can feel like numbness that can turn to despair. Brown shares his background as a teacher, speaker, and writer, his divorce and move from Indianapolis to New York City, and how finding a good therapist after COVID and committing to honesty became a turning point. They examine authenticity as both a personal and creative necessity, including Brown’s decision to write an unflinching memoir and his view that being oneself attracts the right people. Brown also explains his approach to writing through intentional pre-writing, theme, and structure, reads an excerpt about caregiving stress, and outlines a model of self-talk integrating higher power, action, and emotions, culminating in a manifestation framework focused on cultivating general aligned energy rather than specific outcomes.
David Alan Brown has been teaching personal empowerment, leadership, organizational development, self discovery and spirituality to audiences across the country for more than thirty years. He is the author of many books, including Answer the Call: What to do when Spirit arrives to transform your life! and The Self-Help Paradox. He frequently leads classes and services at progressive congregations, including more than a decade of service at New Thought Unity Center of Cincinnati and churches from Florida to Minnesota, Arizona to New York. He also facilitates and consults for corporations and nonprofit organizations, leading programs on leadership, culture, authenticity, presentation skills and staff development. David holds a BFA from New York University, is a fan of auto racing, writes and evaluates live theater, and coaches writers and storytellers. His most recent publication is an online course, Convergence, which teaches people how to recognize and regulate their inner voices to live intentionally each day and manifest their goals. He's here to talk with us about how this became his life's work, how he integrates it into his daily life and what makes it special.
His website: https://davidalanbrown.com/convergence/ 
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Host Abhra speaks with Melbourne-based counselor and media creator John of Your Listener Counseling about reframing failure and reducing mental health stigma. John argues that society overemphasizes success, causing people to mislabel learning experiences as crippling failures and to shame themselves, and he links stigma around mental illness to a broader stigma against “failing” to meet societal expectations. He critiques both shaming and denial-based “positivity,” using autism as an example of how calling challenges a “superpower” can avoid acknowledging real difficulties, and emphasizes accepting flaws, working on change when possible, and accommodating what cannot be changed. They discuss shallow mental-health messaging, emotional exploitation and misinformation in media, the need for critical thinking, and core self-care pillars such as introspection, deliberate decision-making, meaningful activity, and valuing human connections.
John Cuturilo is a counsellor, writer, and podcast host in Melbourne, Australia. He conducts therapy with a diverse range of clients and specialises in working with complex trauma and relational matters. His seeks to address shortcomings in common practice by being versatile, educative, empowering, and relatable, integrating humanity and lived experience with evidence-based methods. As a writer and host, he educates his audience about how psychology applies to their lives, encouraging them to be more critical, constructive thinkers. He eschews politics and popular rhetoric for a pursuit of objective reality and nuanced analysis.
Find him at: www.yourlistener.com.au
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In this episode of Stories and Stanza (Fail With Me), the host Abhra speaks with Kendall, a mental health advocate, mom, and author, about reframing failure, the limits of self-help, and the importance of community support. Kendall describes how depression can look different than stereotypes, shares strategies for communicating needs to friends and caregivers (including asking for comfort vs solutions), and discusses diagnosis, stigma, and building person-centered support. She explains her children’s picture book, “Mom’s Cloud and the Beach Adventure,” which uses a cloud metaphor to help kids understand a parent’s depression and emphasizes that “clouds don’t last forever.” Kendall also shares experiences with miscarriage, pregnancy, postpartum challenges, and the need for more honest conversations among mothers, while the host reflects on caregiver support and generational shifts in mental health awareness.
Kendall’s greatest adventures began at home, as a mother. Her stories are inspired by the curiosity, humor, and boundless imagination of her children, who often help shape the characters and moments that appear on the page. Alongside her family, including her husband, Matt, and their dog, Kiaora, she fills her days with laughter, exploration, and just the right amount of playful weirdness. When she’s not creating stories, Kendall can usually be found where the wild things are.
Kendal's Website: https://cloudydaychronicles.org/books/ 

In this poignant Stories and Stanza episode, we sit down with Katie Rizzo as she shares her deeply personal journey following her son's passing from a drug overdose. She bravely discusses the profound impact of addiction on her family and her coping mechanisms for grief. Discover how she navigated this challenging period, ultimately finding peace and embarking on a path of healing.
Katie Rizzo’s memoir, The Trimesters of Grief, will be released on October 6 by Koehler Books, with Blackstone Publishing handling audio licensing. None of Them Are You - A book of Poems is being published by Extra Extra Publishing on Dia de los Muertos, October 31st. 
For the last fifteen years, Katie Rizzo taught Anatomy and Biology at her local community college and public high school. She holds two masters, one from Yale University and another from University of Colorado School of Medicine. Her short stories have been published in literary journals such as Prosetrics, The Literary Magazine and in anthologies such as the HG Wells Short Story Competition. She has earned spots in the juried Aspen Words Conferences. She lives in Arizona with two dogs and her husband. Details about her book signings and speaking calendar can be found at her website.
Sometimes you don't need solutions. You need a soothing voice. What makes this conversation so healing isn't just her story—it's how she found peace by inviting grief to "sit beside her" rather than carrying it alone. Katie discovered that grief isn't love with nowhere to go—it's something we can befriend. Through poetry, journaling, and connecting with nature (especially stargazing under the Milky Way), she learned to find meaning in the midst of unimaginable loss.
For anyone feeling lost in grief's rubble
For parents navigating addiction's heartbreak
For souls seeking authentic connection over surface-level comfort
This episode reminds us that healing isn't about "moving on"—it's about finding peace with what will always be. Sometimes the most profound comfort comes from knowing you're not alone in the darkness.

In this episode of Stories and Stanza (Fail With Me), host Abhra speaks with Saw Myint, a Burmese Australian based in Sydney, about mental health challenges in a technology-driven world with reduced human connection. They discuss the importance of awareness, opening up to trusted people or seeking professional help, and using journaling or simply being listened to as ways to release emotions before they build up. Saw shares personal experiences of childhood hardship, lessons from failures in business, parenting, and relationships, and how Buddhist practice shaped her approach to mental self-care. Her core idea is that both satisfaction and dissatisfaction are temporary—good and bad experiences pass—so people should relax, live in the moment, avoid attachment, and practice brief daily mindfulness to observe worries as imagination. She also emphasizes taking action and helping others as a path to healing.
Saw Myint is the founder of Wake Up Ltd, an Australian charity dedicated to mental wellbeing. For over a decade, Buddhist practice has transformed her own mental health journey—and she now shares these science-backed insights with others. Whether through mindfulness coaching or mortgage brokering, Saw helps people navigate stress, anxiety, depression, and major life decisions with clarity and confidence. Her approach is simple: recognize that feelings are fleeting, and cultivate resilience in the present moment. Available for speaking engagements, interviews & workshops on practical, Buddhist-inspired mental health practices. 
Reach Out / Support Her work: https://www.facebook.com/likesawkmyint 

In this Stories and Stanza episode, host Abhra and psychologist Silvia Russen discuss why pop psychology and viral mental-health advice can distort clinical terms, turning descriptive tools into moral judgments, pathologizing normal discomfort, and turning relationships into battlegrounds of labels. They highlight risks of unqualified advice, privacy and research-ethics issues, and the need for evidence-based, individualized care since psychology is not one size fits all. Russin clarifies commonly misused terms: gaslighting as a repeated pattern of manipulative psychological abuse that undermines a person’s reality, not simple lying or disagreement; “triggered” as a stimulus causing sudden symptom spikes in conditions like PTSD or OCD, not everyday irritation; narcissistic personality disorder as a persistent, pervasive diagnosis causing dysfunction, not a synonym for selfishness; trauma as lasting adverse effects after harmful events; and trauma bonding as attachment formed through cycles of abuse and intermittent reinforcement, not bonding over shared hardship.
Silvia Russen is a Business Psychologist, Neuroscience Coach, and PhD Researcher specialising in emotional well-being, resilience, and recovery in the workplace. Integrating psychology and neuroscience, Silvia applies evidence-based practices - including Acceptance and Commitment Training (ACT) - to empower leaders and teams in navigating stress, decision-making, conflict resolution, and workplace relationships. Silvia has collaborated with organisations worldwide, providing tailored interventions and workshops on transformational leader hological safety, emotional intelligence, and diversity, equity, and inclusion (DE&I). Her engaging speaking style and ability to translate complex neuroscience research into actionable insights have made her a popular keynote speaker at international conferences, industry events, and leadership summits. Alongside her client work, Silvia serves as an Adjunct Professor of Psychology, teaching undergraduate and postgraduate modules in areas such as cognitive neuroscience, organisational psychology, and advanced research methods. Her current PhD research focuses on the neuroscience behind emotional regulation strategies, investigating how these can enhance cardiovascular health, emotional resilience, and overall well-being in professional settings. Passionate about giving back, Silvia also regularly volunteers her expertise to first responders, charities, and frontline aid organisations, providing workshops and strategies on managing stress, building resilience, and improving mental health. Silvia’s ultimate aim is simple yet powerful: to help individuals and organisations leverage psychological insights, enhance their emotional well-being, and thrive both personally and professionally.

In this Stories in Stanza episode, host Abhra welcomes guest Doug Belkofer to discuss how childhood-formed beliefs like “I don’t matter” or “people always leave” become subconscious filters that shape perception, relationships, work, and repeated “failures.” Doug explains how these emotion-based beliefs can drive negative manifestation, emotional withdrawal, and lowered investment in relationships, and why self-improvement efforts can feel ineffective when filtered through the same core beliefs. He describes revisiting formative events in a calm, meditative process to create conflicting adult perspectives that lead to memory reconsolidation and new neural pathways. The conversation also explores men’s emotional unavailability, learned modeling from parents, and practical ways to practice emotional expression. Doug shares a poetic excerpt from his book-in-progress and previews his upcoming ebook Finding the Path back to You and a live course, The Pass Back to You, emphasizing that feeling stuck is normal.
Doug Belkofer is a U.S. Army veteran, tech leader, and founder of Forging Truth, where he helps people uncover the hidden beliefs shaping how they experience life, relationships, and faith. His work is grounded in lived experience and shared to encourage others that hope and clarity are possible when we’re willing to face what’s real.
Book link:https://intro.forgingtruth.com/the-phoenix-quest/finding-the-path-back-to-you-e-book-orderDoug's Website: https://forgingtruth.com/ Email: dougbelkofer@forgingtruth.com 
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