Stories and Stanza

In this insightful episode of 'Stories and Stanza', host Abhra dives deep into the transformative practice of shadow journaling with Oliver Mann, a renowned journaling coach. They explore the importance of self-awareness, the impact of triggers, and the process of integrating shadow aspects into the psyche. Through practical examples, prompts, and personal anecdotes, they uncover how shadow work can help rewrite one's story, embrace vulnerability, and achieve wholesome growth. By examining regret, joy, and even resistance, they illustrate how to navigate emotional complexities and live authentically.
About Oliver
Oliver Mann is a journaling mentor and teacher, with a passion for Shadow Journaling. Diving into Shadow work was a pivotal moment in Oliver’s life, after which writing and journaling took on completely new powers. By opening up to the process of delving into the psyche through writing, he discovered the power of curiosity and acceptance of the complete self. Through his work, Oliver is now inviting others to take gentle steps into the shadow. With the bright lights we shine, we can soon become friends with what once scared us. Oliver is also the co-founder of the Barcelona Journaling Festival, an annual writing event attracting a global audience. He is a council member of the International Association of Journal Writers, and is a certified JTTS instructor.

In this episode of Stories and Stanza, host Abhra is joined by psychologist Patty from Chicago to dive into the complexities of generational trauma, perfectionism, and self-awareness. They discuss how cultural expectations can shape behaviors, the importance of unlearning harmful patterns, and the impact of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) on daily life. Throughout their intimate conversation, Patty shares her personal experiences with immigration and identity while offering insights into how trauma and perfectionism are interconnected. Tune in to learn more about the significance of self-awareness and strategies to foster a lifestyle of calm and well-being.
Patty Johnson is a psychologist who specializes in trauma healing and obsessive-compulsive disorder. She also creates art related to culture, justice and the bizarre and beautiful intricacies of life. She is the author of Essays of Night and Daylight, on movement through life as she explores kaleidoscopes of identity, pondering comments such as, "Oh, you speak such good English!" She wonders about the shame behind her grandmother's tribal tattoo after being visited by Christian missionaries. She revels in the making of chai, this earthy elixir that reminds her of the power of each brown-skinned woman. Patty’s work can be found in The Broken Spine, Write City Magazine, Riksha Magazine and elsewhere. She gave a TEDx talk on changing the narrative of inequity. She is also a guitar goddess but only in the eyes of her dog, Marley.
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In this episode of Stories and Stanza, host Abhra welcomes back Brooke Bounce, a breakthrough coach known for simplifying complex concepts. Together, they dive into the intricate topics of inner child healing and reparenting. Brooke shares her personal journey with a narcissistic mother and how it shaped her beliefs. She explains how anxiety, self-sabotage, self-doubt, procrastination, and perfectionism are linked to unmet inner child needs. The discussion covers the importance of acknowledging and addressing these fears, how generational trauma impacts behavior, and practical strategies for reprogramming the inner child for a more fulfilling life. Brooke also introduces her book, 'You Can Have It: How to Break Through the Self-Sabotage Cycle,' which offers step-by-step guidance for overcoming these deep-seated issues.

In this episode of 'Stories and Stanza,' host Abhra engages in an intimate conversation with health coach Megan Gaul on the mind-body connection in weight loss. They discuss Megan's personal journey of losing 100 pounds, the importance of understanding the deeper motivations behind weight loss goals, and strategies for fostering a healthy relationship with food. The discussion also touches upon the benefits of walking as a mindfulness exercise, the value of journaling, and the concept of failure and resilience in achieving long-term health objectives. Tune in to gain insights into how emotional and physical well-being are interconnected and discover practical tips for maintaining a healthy lifestyle.
00:00 Introduction and Personal Weight Loss Journey01:04 Welcome to Stories and Stanza01:15 Introducing Megan and Our Relationship with Food Series02:24 Mind-Body Connection and Weight Loss02:40 Megan's Personal and Professional Journey04:17 The Importance of Failures in Success04:40 Exploring Mind-Body Awareness09:55 Strategies for Effective Weight Loss13:59 The Role of Journaling in Weight Loss27:32 Walking as a Mindfulness Exercise39:25 Final Thoughts and Program Information
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Discover the surprising secret to making relationships successful with Puya Delavar! In this video, Puya shares his top tips and strategies for building strong, healthy, and long-lasting relationships. Whether you're looking to improve your romantic partnership, strengthen your friendships, or even boost your professional relationships, Puya's expert advice will give you the tools you need to succeed. From effective communication techniques to conflict resolution strategies, Puya covers it all. So, what's the secret to making relationships successful? Watch to find out!
Puya Delavar is a leading Men’s Relationship Coach and founder of Puya Delavar Coaching, where he helps high-performing men in senior leadership roles protect what matters most: their relationship, their family, and their legacy.In a world where professional success often overshadows personal connection, Puya offers a different path: one where you don’t have to choose between thriving in your career and having a meaningful relationship at home. His work centres on helping men turn a cold, disconnected relationship into one of respect and intimacy without stepping away from their responsibilities as leaders.With over a decade of research, lived experience, and a deep understanding of behavioural psychology, Puya has developed a structured and highly practical approach. His proven method uncovers the hidden patterns and blind spots that quietly erode connection, identifies the true root causes of recurring conflict, and equips his clients with science-backed tools for sustainable change.At the core of his philosophy is Holistic Success — the belief that fulfilment and high performance come from balance across three key areas: personal wellbeing, personal growth, and personal relationships. His work is continuously informed by real-world case studies and one-to-one coaching insights, ensuring his programmes stay grounded, effective, and relevant to the fast-paced lives of his clients.His flagship 12-week programme - Crisis to Connection - is designed specifically for men who want to repair, strengthen, and future-proof their relationship while continuing to operate at the top of their game.

In this episode of Stories and Stanza, we welcome author and peace builder Somia Sadiq as she discusses her debut novel 'Gajarah.' Somia explores the cultural significance of Gajarah, a traditional flower assembly, and delves into its representation of beauty, tradition, and spiritual resonance. Throughout this heartfelt conversation, Somia shares her insights on language, identity, trauma, and the complexities of healing. Join us as we uncover the layers of her book, understand the nuances of cultural identities, and reflect on the responsibilities of writers in today's world. Somia also reads a poignant excerpt from her book, beautifully weaving poetry and prose to illustrate the journey of her protagonist, Iman.
00:00 Introduction to Gajarah01:27 Welcome to Stories and Stanza01:43 Meet Somia Sadik04:34 Discussing the Book09:51 Reading from the Book14:14 Writing Style and Inspirations21:20 Cultural Identity and Language28:01 Themes of Trauma and Healing39:05 Peacebuilding and Inclusivity50:47 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Somia Sadiq is an award-winning Pakistani Canadian entrepreneur, peace negotiator, and conflicttransformation strategist. Rooted in the work of impact assessment, Somia founded Narratives, aplanning and design firm that emphasizes human-centric, trauma-informed story work, lived experience, and creating space for celebration of ancestral identity. Somia is also the founder of Kahanee, a nonprofit organization that works nationally and internationally amplifying storytelling and facilitated dialogue for peacebuilding.Somia is a published author and a highly sought after keynote speaker, offering insights on women intrauma-informed leadership, and fostering resilience in a rapidly changing environment. Recognized for her contributions to the Planning practice in Canada and internationally, Somia was recently inducted into the Canadian Institute of Planners' esteemed College of Fellows, the highest honor for a planner in Canada. Gajarah, her debut novel, comes out in September 2025.
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Join relationship coach, Jeanell Greene, as we dive into the unexpected confessions that emerged at a Coldplay concert! From shocking infidelity revelations to surprising relationship breakthroughs, we explore the emotional rollercoaster that unfolded at the iconic band's live show. What secrets did the music uncover? Watch to find out!
Jeanell is a Relationship Coach and Marriage Expert well-known for saving countless marriages from loneliness and divorce while addressing generational trauma. Her passion lies in rekindling the 'best friend' dynamic for couples, allowing them to rediscover profound love, peace, and fun again. Jeanell firmly believes that self-love and forgiveness are necessary for a happy and healthy relationship and that couples can attain the marriage they've always desired by embracing healing, growth, and change. She's here to guide you on a beautiful, transformative journey full of compassion, love, and wisdom, empowering you to be not only the best partners for each other but also inspiring role models for your family. 
Link to previous episode: https://youtu.be/5vzeCUKqBA0 
In this compelling episode of 'Stories in Stanza,' host Abhra and relationship coach Janelle from Ontario dive deep into the complexities of infidelity in relationships. They explore cultural norms, personal experiences, and the broader societal implications of cheating. Through thoughtful discussion, Janelle shares her professional insights and personal stories, highlighting the importance of communication, self-awareness, and self-love. They discuss how generational traumas, personal insecurities, and societal expectations influence our relationships and actions. This episode offers a sensitive and nuanced perspective on a topic often shrouded in judgment and taboo, aiming to foster understanding and compassion.

Jamie Hughes is a passionate advocate for mental well-being and the author of insightful works on resilience and self-care. Drawing from a Master's Degree in Psychology with a specialization in trauma, resilience, and self-care, Jamie brings a wealth of academic knowledge and practical experience to his coaching and writing. His expertise is further solidified by years of dedicated service in non-profit program development and management, where he honed his skills in victim advocacy, as well as social and forensic psychology. Jamie's commitment to empowering individuals to navigate life's challenges shines through in his writing, offering readers a blend of compassionate guidance and evidence-based strategies for cultivating inner strength. Bachelor's Degree in Applied Psychology, Master's Degree in Social Psychology with a specialization in trauma, Member of the Society for Police and Criminal Psychology, Certified Professional Life Coach, Member of the National Association for Poetry Therapy, and Certified Therapeutic Writing Instructor.
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In this episode, we delve into the critical question of when to seek therapy, addressing issues from past trauma to persistent mental illness symptoms. Our guest, Jamie, shares insights on recognizing the need for professional help, the differences between therapists and psychiatrists, and the importance of finding a therapist whose style matches your personal needs. We discuss how mental health symptoms often manifest physically and the role of diet and exercise in mental health. This discussion also covers the journey of healing, dealing with unresolved parental relationships, and coping mechanisms. Tune in for a heartfelt and educational conversation that aims to guide you towards growth and healing.